Urgent help for escaping domestic violence.

Leaving an abusive home often takes money you do not have: transport, a safe place to stay, food for the children. If you are in immediate danger, call 112 and reach someone you trust first. When you are safe, AbegNa can help with the costs of starting again.

Usual cost in Nigeria₦5,000 to ₦100,000
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When this happens

  • You need transport to get yourself and your children to a relative.
  • You left with nothing and need food and basic items.
  • You need money for a room deposit in a safer place.

How AbegNa helps

  1. Ask. Say what you need for escaping domestic violence, up to ₦100,000, in your own voice.
  2. Share. Your request becomes a card for WhatsApp, Facebook and X.
  3. Receive. People give what they can. 0% commission. It goes to your own bank account.

Other places to try

Emergency number 112

If you are in immediate danger, call 112 from any phone.

Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA)

In Lagos, the DSVA takes reports and refers survivors for support. Its toll free line is 0800 0333 333.

Mirabel Centre, LASUTH Ikeja

Free medical and counselling support for survivors of sexual violence in Lagos.

A trusted person

A friend, relative or religious leader can help you plan and stay safe.

Questions about escaping domestic violence

Who can I call for domestic violence in Nigeria?

Call 112 in an emergency. In Lagos you can also contact the Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency. Some other states have similar response teams.

Can I ask for help to leave on AbegNa?

Yes. Only post when it is safe. Keep your details simple and never share your new location.

Will the other person see my post?

Posts can be seen by others, so do not include your address or anything that reveals where you are going.

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